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For organizations that support families

Help families find
their way in.

Workshops, virtual sessions, course access, and an app to help the families you serve connect through reading.

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Developed by a CFLE-P +

Created by Quinn Cummings, a Certified Family Life Educator (Provisional).

Meet Quinn
Research-informed +

Explore the ideas and research that inform the framework, alongside practical examples for families.

Explore the framework
Professional perspectives +

Course materials reviewed by a professional with an M.A. in Child and Adolescent Psychology, with support for the work from a speech-language pathologist.

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Connection-centered +

Complements literacy instruction while focusing on how caregivers and children listen, share, and respond to one another.

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Two ways to work together

Learn together.
Keep connecting at home.

Live sessions

Learning
that starts here.

Bring Quinn into the room. Practical sessions help adults notice, listen, and connect through books.

  • In-person workshops
  • Webinars
  • Virtual presentations
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Quinn interviewing Rachel Renée and Nikki Russell, creators of Dork Diaries
On the Reading To Connect Show · Rachel Renée & Nikki Russell

Course + app access

Support that
goes home.

The course teaches the approach. Caregivers learn how to use The ENGAGE Method to connect through reading.

The app supports the moment. Families get guidance tied to the book in their hands.

Explore access for your families
One book.
More ways
to connect.
Guidance for ages
5–8 and 9–12
The ENGAGE app displayed on a phone

Offer a live session, family course access, app access, or bring them together.

The framework behind the work

The ENGAGE Method® in action.

Six practices give families different ways to connect through a book. Move through ENGAGE from cover to close, or step into the practice that fits the moment.

A moment families might share

A caregiver offers two books; the child chooses one. Together, they find a comfortable place to read.

Caregiver + child · Room for both

01 / 06 · Excite

Togetherness

Help caregivers and children find a welcoming way into time together.

Six practices. One shared relationship.

A moment families might share

A character starts at a new school. The caregiver says, “That reminds me of your first day at your new school.”

Caregiver + child · Room for both

02 / 06 · Notice

Feeling Seen

Use the book to show a child that you notice something about their life, giving them an opportunity to feel seen.

Six practices. One shared relationship.

A moment families might share

Caregiver and child try different character voices, respond to one another, and make the story their own.

Caregiver + child · Room for both

03 / 06 · Give

Understanding & Attachment

Make room for play, expression, and shared feelings.

Six practices. One shared relationship.

A moment families might share

A caregiver shares a memory the page brings up. The child adds a connection of their own; both stories have room.

Caregiver + child · Room for both

04 / 06 · Apply

Bonding & Closeness

Invite families’ memories, values, and traditions into the story.

Six practices. One shared relationship.

A moment families might share

A caregiver follows an unexpected thought from the child, listens, and reflects on what they learned about one another.

Caregiver + child · Room for both

05 / 06 · Gather

Feeling Heard

Encourage listening that leaves room for each person’s perspective.

Six practices. One shared relationship.

A moment families might share

Caregiver and child imagine different endings and share why they chose them. They can disagree and stay connected.

Caregiver + child · Room for both

06 / 06 · Ending

Empowerment & Legacy Building

Make room for each person’s ideas, even after the book closes.

Six practices. One shared relationship.

Explore the family experience

A familiar book.
A new way into connection.

Choose a cover to see an invitation a caregiver could use. These examples show the guidance available to families.

Sample invitation for caregivers · Ages 5–8

Where the Wild Things Are

"Before you open the book, ask your kid what they think a 'Wild Thing' might be."

This is the kind of guidance families can use at home. There is room to respond, share a different thought, or keep reading.

Families & professionals

What stayed with them.

Reflections on the course, the materials, and reading together.

Review of the ENGAGE course for families

“I read a lot of parenting books, and I often end up feeling inadequate and like achieving ‘good’ parenting is impossible. Not with this!”

Cristin M.

Parent · Course participant · Now a lifetime ENGAGE app member

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“I could see this course being a wonderful tool for teachers and other professionals who work with children as well.”

“I also know I can revisit it over the years and continue to use books as a way to connect, even as they become teens/young adults.”

Review of the ENGAGE course materials

“Your suggestions and modeling for the parents are quite clear and useful.”

Jean Roberts, M.A., Child and Adolescent Psychology
Retired professional · Course materials reviewer

What this makes possible

Help families find the words.
And discover each other.

Parents want to connect with their children. Knowing what to say, or how to make room for what comes next, can be harder. Quinn makes those possibilities practical through shared reading.

For parents & caregivers

Feel more confident finding your way in.

Learn ways to start talking, share your own experiences, and notice what matters to your child. Guidance leaves room for your energy, your family’s voice, and the way your child responds.

Both of you have something to bring and something to discover about each other.

For professionals & teams

Make connection something families can practice.

Go beyond recommending that families read together. Quinn helps you show caregivers how a book can open space for listening, shared stories, and play.

Bring practical family life education into your work, with guidance families can return to at home.

One family’s experience with the ENGAGE app

While reading If You Run Out of Words, a connection clue helped Tristen ask her daughter what she wanted to hear more often from her parents.

“So I looked at the connection clues, and my God, did we connect. … Her responses were ‘you’re tough’ and ‘I love you so much. You’re the best’.

“I almost cried because this made me realize I don’t say it nearly enough.”

Tristen, ENGAGE app parent · Excerpt from her shared family moment
Quinn smiling in her reading room; restored video still

Meet your facilitator

Quinn Cummings, CFLE-P

Certified Family Life Educator · Provisional

Founder of Reading To Connect and creator of The ENGAGE Method®. Quinn brings family life education into shared reading to support both caregiver and child and strengthen their relationship.

She helps families find ways to listen, share, and enjoy one another, with guidance that respects their strengths, experiences, and everyday capacity.

THE PROFESSIONAL GUIDEBeyond Read 20 Minutes: Supporting Families Who Struggle with Reading at Home: the Reading To Connect professional guide
15 pages · For professionals who support families
“But now I realize we could’ve gone deeper. And that my voice mattered.”

Parent, Reading To Connect podcast listener
Excerpt from the Professional Guide

A resource for the families beside you

Beyond
“read 20 minutes.”

Give families a reason to read that begins with the connection they want.

Find language and practical next steps for helping families connect through books without adding more pressure to reading at home.

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Before we talk

A few practical questions.

You don’t need a finished plan to reach out.

Does this replace reading instruction?

No. ENGAGE complements literacy instruction by giving families another reason to gather around a book: connection.

Parents want to know their children and spend real time together. We show them how reading can make room for that through talking, play, and stories of their own. The purpose is to make reading a time both caregiver and child can want to return to.

Can we offer course or app access without a live session?

Yes. Organizations can purchase family course access, app access, or both. The course teaches caregivers how to use ENGAGE; the app offers guidance for the book in their hands. A live session can be added for shared learning.

What should we bring to the first call?

Tell Quinn who you serve, what you’re noticing, and what you hope to support. An approximate family count and any timing needs are helpful. The format can be worked out together.

Let’s start with your families

Bring a little more
connection into your work.

Tell me who you serve. We’ll start there.

Discuss your organization’s needs

Excite / Research & practice

A welcoming invitation leaves room for choice.

Self-determination theory identifies autonomy, competence, and relatedness (feeling willing, capable, and connected) as important foundations of motivation.

How ENGAGE puts this into practice

Excite offers a welcoming way into shared reading, with room for caregiver and child to shape the experience together. Each person brings their interests and capacity.

Research foundation

Ryan & Deci (2000). Self-Determination Theory and the Facilitation of Intrinsic Motivation, Social Development, and Well-Being. (PDF, opens in a new tab)

This connection explains the practice’s theoretical grounding; it is not evidence of measured ENGAGE outcomes.

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How could Reading To Connect support your families?

Three quick questions. Options for your organization. No email required.

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Notice / Research & practice

Being known needs to be felt.

In a study of adults describing a parent or adult sibling, feeling known was associated with relationship satisfaction. Knowing someone and helping them feel known are different things.

How ENGAGE puts this into practice

Notice uses the book to make a caregiver’s knowledge of the child visible. A familiar detail or remembered experience can say, “I pay attention to your life.” The child has room to receive, add to, or correct that connection.

Research foundation

Schroeder & Fishbach (2024). Feeling known predicts relationship satisfaction. (opens in a new tab)

This study concerned adults and measured associations. It did not test Notice or the effects of offering recognition to children.

This research informs the practice; it does not establish measured outcomes of The ENGAGE Method.

Give / Research & practice

Shared expression gives families another way to join in.

Observations of 31 families with children ages 8–12 found that children’s positive expressions were more likely to continue when family members shared positive emotion, touch, or leisure.

How ENGAGE puts this into practice

Give brings the story into shared expression and play. A softer voice, a small movement, or a playful pause can create an opening. Watching and quiet participation belong here, too.

Research foundation

Bai, Repetti, & Sperling (2016). Children’s expressions of positive emotion are sustained by smiling, touching, and playing with parents and siblings. (opens in a new tab)

The study observed everyday family life. It did not establish lasting relationship change or test expressive reading. No particular expression or physical contact is required.

This research informs the practice; it does not establish measured outcomes of The ENGAGE Method.

Apply / Research & practice

Family stories make personal meaning available.

Research on family narratives, values, and rituals examines how families share meaning. In one study of 40 families with children ages 9–12, coordinating perspectives during family storytelling was associated with higher self-esteem among girls; the full-sample finding was weaker.

How ENGAGE puts this into practice

Apply uses a book as an opening for the caregiver to share a true memory, value, or tradition. The child gets to know more about the person and family behind those experiences. Listening can be enough; agreement is not required.

Research foundation

Bohanek, Marin, Fivush, & Duke (2006). Family narrative interaction and children’s sense of self. (opens in a new tab)

These findings do not show that telling a family story causes higher self-esteem. Apply’s proposed contribution to shared understanding remains an outcome to evaluate.

This research informs the practice; it does not establish measured outcomes of The ENGAGE Method.

Gather / Research & practice

The way an answer is received matters.

In an experiment with 1,001 adolescents ages 13–16, participants watched parent–child disclosure scenarios. Better parental listening increased anticipated feelings of autonomy, connection, and well-being.

How ENGAGE puts this into practice

Gather invites something the caregiver genuinely wants to learn about the child. The opening continues in how the caregiver receives the answer, with room for a different view, a short response, or a choice to keep reading.

Research foundation

Weinstein, Huo, & Itzchakov (2021). Parental listening when adolescents self-disclose: A preregistered experimental study. (opens in a new tab)

The experiment measured responses to videos, not changes in participants’ own families. Applying these findings to younger children and shared reading requires further study.

This research informs the practice; it does not establish measured outcomes of The ENGAGE Method.

Ending Swap / Research & practice

An idea can belong to the child.

A small painting experiment with 44 first- and second-grade children compared controlling limits, informational limits, and no limits. Results largely supported the concern that controlling guidance can undermine motivation and creativity.

How ENGAGE puts this into practice

Ending Swap opens room to imagine a different possibility, create something, or carry an interest beyond the book. Caregiver and child can shape what happens next. An idea can also be complete without becoming an activity.

Research foundation

Koestner, Ryan, Bernieri, & Holt (1984). Setting limits on children’s behavior: The differential effects of controlling vs. informational styles on intrinsic motivation and creativity. (opens in a new tab)

The experiment tested a painting task. It did not test Ending Swap or establish lasting gains in confidence, self-trust, or family connection.

This research informs the practice; it does not establish measured outcomes of The ENGAGE Method.